How can I be a loving mom (dad, parent, teacher) without getting burnt out? How do I teach my kids it's not ok to hit me? How can I get my child to eat the food I made when she says she doesn't like it? What if they cry for a long time? I'm worried we didn't bond enough when he was a baby - can I still say no or will that drive us farther apart? This episode drops in to the middle of some thoughts Layne and Jess where having about hot men and what we can take from observing them, then it gets into the good stuff... Today we are talking about how parents can hold personal boundaries with their child as a response to some of the questions you brought to our community call this month. We talk about why it's good for your child when you hold personal boundaries with them and just what makes it so hard to do. We get into the how and why of saying yes when you mean it, saying no when you need to and cultivating a relationship with your child that allows BOTH of you to get what you need. Join ⁠Very Good Mothers Club⁠ to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month)! Find Jess at ⁠Jessica Hover⁠ on Youtube and ⁠@jess_hover ⁠on Instagram Find Layne ⁠@enquiryco⁠ on Instagram Check out our new store at: http://www.verygoodmothersclub.com @verygoodmothersclub See you on instagram! @jess_hover __________________ Baby Products you might like: Swaddles: muslin swaddle: https://bit.ly/2GPOIOu Baby Clothes: Mebie Baby (Double zipper/zips from the bottom): https://bit.ly/315DwE3 Pacifiers: Pacifier: https://bit.ly/3gNuQur Clip: https://bit.ly/2SRkPzJ Diapers, Wipes & Shampoo: Hello Bello Diapers ($15 OFF): https://hellobello.com/?smile_ref=eyJ... Car seat: Uppa Baby Mesa: https://amzn.to/2RnwyWP Winter seat cover: https://amzn.to/2TUl1Q7 Nursing Spot: Rocking Chair: https://amzn.to/2P0PKcb Boppy Pillow: https://amzn.to/3aBJAY8 Nursing Bra: https://bit.ly/2H75AQA Place for the baby to hang out: Swing: https://amzn.to/30LYs1I Bouncer: https://amzn.to/36mnJAH Snuggle Me Organics Lounger: https://bit.ly/340ZIkV Baby Bed: Snoo: https://amzn.to/2tK8Ri8 More affordable bassinet: https://amzn.to/36idhKl Baby Newborn Kit: https://amzn.to/2sXNwSc Bottles: Dr. Browns: https://amzn.to/36fNVNm Como Tomo: https://amzn.to/2GfeNT8 Breast Pump: Haakaa: https://amzn.to/2uwlxZW Portable Electric Pump: https://amzn.to/36qHQNX Cheaper Electric Pump: https://amzn.to/2usof2V Baby Monitor: Owlet (Wifi camera): https://amzn.to/37nNl1h Eufy: https://amzn.to/2Y1mr Nanit: https://amzn.to/2vkI9xb Baby Bath: https://amzn.to/2urtbFe Griper Water: https://amzn.to/2NVtX3Z Stroller: https://amzn.to/2RkSxgY Carriers: Ergo 360 baby carrier: https://amzn.to/2OJMwc Ring Sling: https://amzn.to/2MILDhT Swado swaddle: https://amzn.to/2rUYd6Q Halo sleep sack: https://amzn.to/2rR4fWe Zipadeezip: https://amzn.to/365jhqp Portable Sound Machine: https://bit.ly/3rl3teW Baby Toys: KiwiCo: https://kiwico.com/jess_hover